Showing posts with label workplace etiquette. Show all posts
Showing posts with label workplace etiquette. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

What's NOT Cool to Me!!

Okay, here's my beef for the day!  This is my blog and I'll rant if I want to!
this image is from the division of labor site
http://www.dailyinspiration.nl/new-rules-of-work/

I do not think it's cool that a guy makes dick/penis jokes in a predominately all female workplace with the female staff.  NOT COOL to me...but then again, maybe that is the uptight side of me.  

I was raised and taught upon entering the adult work place, that such talk is frowned upon.  That one may joke around from time to time with their co worker..but for a male staff to go up to a female staff and ask...."what does that look like"...in reference to a craft that apparently resembled a male appendage.....just not cool. NOT COOL!  

What happened to work place etiquette?  Do I live in the stone ages?  Do I live under a rock?   I mean I too can joke around...or make innuendos just like anyone. I too can be somewhat inappropriate  BUT I thought there was a time and a place for such talk.  Apparently I am wrong and do live under a rock.

I have learned in the last week that it is normal talk in the work place or ANYWHERE.  That it's okay for a guy to joke like that with a female or male co worker or vice versa.  I voiced my concern out of concern for the person making the joke...that it may be mis interpreted and I didn't want them to get in trouble.  It turned into this huge deal of me not being a funny person, being uptight and just not knowing what is normal.  

It has been a week since this dis agreement...and while that person may be okay.  I AM NOT.  I am not cool with it.  And I don't know how to handle it...so rant and vent I will!  I AM NOT okay with it!

Is it okay to make dick/penis jokes at the workplace?  

Seriously Confused...........