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RANT: Everyone tells me to be myself.....so in this post I'm being my hurt self...and I'm sorry if I step on toes, but seriously maybe some toes need stepped on.
I have said it so many times before. I'm saying it again! Going through divorce is the most unsupported thing to go through in the church. You get excluded, talked about, unfriended, ignored and then the ones who do the excluding tell you "you, need to give people a chance." Really?!?! How the heck can one give you all a chance when you don't give US a fighting chance. Yes, We've dropped off the map, yes, we crawl away and sometimes make some poor choices. Then when we do feel the courage to come back, we are reminded that we are still unlovable, and that we are still different, we are reminded that we really still don't belong.
Seriously, we've been told by the one who was suppose to love us til death do part that we are no longer lovable. How, the heck do you expect us to bounce back when we are treated by the very people who we're told will love us unconditionally, like we have a plague.
What makes YOUR life more lovable and acceptable? Jesus sought...SOUGHT out the unlovable...He sought out the woman that NO ONE wanted to be around. So tell me again WHAT would Jesus do?
MY Jesus did not exclude ME or the rest of us unlovable. For ALL of you who have excluded, unfriended, and ignored us....Jesus still loves us!! And I thank God that my Jesus doesn't use an unfriend button, excludes, ignores... HE accepts me the unlovable way that I am! Jesus loves even ME!
